Archive for the ‘Self Delusion’ Category

A Mind Trap Fueled By Impatience

February 3rd, 2010 by Ashley 3

Sometimes I fantasize about being debt free.  Just substitute always for sometimes.  I’m not thinking about living in a mansion and driving a Mercedes.  I’m just thinking about a life with reliable things that I have the funds to replace when I need to.
The recession ripped out from under me the safety net I didn’t know I [...]

Self-Delusion #2: If I Buy Everything Now, Then I Won’t Have To Spend Later

December 17th, 2009 by Ashley 2

This is my Costco mentality.  I am a very organized person and I like to do everything as efficiently as possible.  One trip to Target to buy all of the cosmetics, toiletries, snack foods, and cleaning supplies I need is more efficient than one a week.
But, even when I try to grab everything I need, [...]

Self-Delusion #1: I Work Hard, So I Deserve to Spend Money

December 8th, 2009 by Ashley 4

It took some irrational thinking to get me so far into debt and to keep me from doing something about it much earlier.  I’m trying to address some of the ways I deluded myself.
I work a lot.  I always have, but now more than ever.  I have never been a big spender, but small purchases [...]

I Want To Be Debt Free

November 14th, 2009 by Ashley 2

I had an epiphany this week.  It’s been a long time coming, but I’ve never been this serious.  I am in debt.  A lot of debt.  And while I’m getting by and am not missing payments or anything, I have put myself at great risk.  If anything goes wrong, I’m screwed.  One missed pay check [...]